The serpent met the woman in the garden, near a tree. And he leveled twin attacks at her that still reverberate, even now.
Attack #1 – God isn’t trustworthy
Attack #2 – You are not enough.
Twin Attacks … Today
Nothing has changed, especially for women. The serpent is still gunning for us, and he’s still using exactly these twin attacks to derail our spiritual growth and deflect us from living our lives for God’s glory.
There is a constant stream of doubt about God. Maybe he isn’t trustworthy. He could have protected me (or my kids or my husband or my job or my marriage or my health), but he didn’t. So maybe I need to just handle things. Our endless need to control the world, nag our husbands, worry ourselves out of sleep and into sickness — this is a direct result of buying in to the suspicion that God can’t be trusted.
And oh, how overwhelming is the flood of messages about how we’re not enough.
We aren’t healthy enough, good enough at managing our homes or balancing our lives. Our kids aren’t accomplished enough. Our husbands aren’t romantic enough (or they would be if we could be more ______ [fill in the blank]).
Even the girls-are-awesome mantras of feminism or the girls-can-do-STEM-careers push in education or new self-help messages that say “God loves you, so you are enough” aren’t really freeing. They don’t remove any expectations we have, they only add new ones. Now I have to please all of these people, too.
And so we fall, just like the woman, deceived by the twin attacks: God is not trustworthy and I am not enough. We live our lives, make decisions, run ourselves ragged trying to protect ourselves from the fear that these two attacks induce.
But like the woman in the garden, the attacks didn’t have to work. She had a choice. So do we. And sometimes, just recognizing the attacks is enough to break their hold over us. To send us running back to God instead of away from him. To enable us to step away from the fruit instead of picking it up. And above all, to keep from being deceived.