First, because it wasn’t working. Let’s be honest, if hearing more of my voice was what actually produced results in my children, things would have changed a LONG time ago. But nothing was changing. I was griping about the same things, over and over. And not big things. Not even “don’t bite your brother”...
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The Limitations of WHY
WHY is a very powerful question. It pushes us deeper. It forces us to mine for answers to real questions, uncomfortable questions. But WHY is not a fix-all. It can be (and often is) stripped of its power in a couple of important ways. First, WHY is short-circuited when we aren’t truthful. We can...
Day 1: WHY…why?
To be honest, the idea of WHY popped into my head. So that has to be my first and most honest answer. Second, WHY is a question that can focus my writing without locking me in right away. I am in the process of discovering my specific voice, what message I might share with...
Why? A Write 31 Days Challenge
I’m going to try it again. The Write 31 Days Challenge. Every day for the month of October, I’ll write a post. And this year, I’m going to write about WHY. Every day, I’ll ask a simple WHY question and try to answer it. And who knows where we’ll all end up. This will...
Things I Learned This Summer
My children’s screen addictions are at least 50% my fault. Asking for help is not just about showing my vulnerability. It’s also about letting other people rise to meet their full potential. Pressure cooker canning is not hard, but I find its precision daunting. Canning is much more fun as a team sport. I...