It’s Black Friday. And I absolutely REFUSE to leave my house unless someone’s life depends on it on Black Friday. All the people and cars and traffic and people. *shudder* But even on a day like today, we can take discernment into account. So today, some brief thoughts on supporting discernment. A Few Good...
Category: Anchored & Equipped
False Discernment
I struggled to find a good title for this post. “When It’s not Really Discernment” is accurate, but I couldn’t figure out the SEO for that one. I tried “Faking Discernment,” but today’s post isn’t about someone who’s faking. It’s about the ways we think we’re living discerningly, when we aren’t. It’s about false...
Urgency is the Enemy of Discernment
I do pretty much everything fast. It’s part of my (ahem) charm. But speed is different from urgency. And urgency is the enemy of discernment. Urgency is a push, internal or external, that says “this cannot wait.” It believes that another minute (or hour or day or year) will cause the downfall of civilization...
The Challenge of Questions
Asking questions is a powerful skill for the discerning life. But questions are not easy. The challenge of questions is how to ask and answer them with discernment. A comment thread today reminded me of this issue. Someone asked a question, honestly wanting an answer, and another group member responded, in the end, unhelpfully....
Ask God Questions
I’ve talked about asking questions. And asking why. And mentioned that questions are probably the fundamental skill for discernment. But I’m convinced the most important aspect of this particular skill is to ask God questions. Is is valuable and necessary to talk to other people, to listen well, to ask good, hard questions and...